When it comes to the question of what size partner is actually ideal, we’ve all heard the misconception that bigger is always better.
But with some surprising candor, British adult star Belle Olivia is ready to dispel that illusion—yes, she is revealing the tropes we’ve all seen in adult films.
Olivia, who is only 22 years old, is among the highest-paid superstars in the adult industry and has seen it all. She just disclosed her own and her coworkers’ actual tastes, and spoiler alert: they don’t all center on the exaggerated dimensions we’ve become used to.
Many men may be surprised to learn that bigger isn’t always better. Olivia disclosed that the desire to have large proportions, which is sometimes highlighted in adult films, isn’t as important in real life as it is in popular culture.
Being so small and delicate, like many other girls in the field, can be a real disadvantage since it hurts us while we’re making our stuff, she explained, adding, “There’s no way big is always better.”
What is the ideal size for closeness in the real world?
According to Olivia, it’s about 6.5 inches. In reference to the query, “What about girth?” She’s also capable of managing that. Olivia remarked, “We also don’t want them too girthy.” It doesn’t hurt and seems to be the perfect fit. We also want that from our boyfriends, by the way.
Olivia urges guys to stop comparing themselves to what they see in adult films and reminds us that those “exaggerated” images don’t really reflect our own tendencies. “No girl wants to end up not being able to walk every day just because they’ve had s**,” she said, lightening the mood.
Studies also support her observations. A 2022 study found that women preferred a slightly larger size (approximately 6.4 inches) for a casual encounter but a slightly smaller size (about 6.3 inches) for a long-term relationship.
A little change? Yes. It does, however, show that comfort and versatility are more significant than size.
For those who compare themselves to the massive firearms you see in movies, Olivia’s comments are a welcome dose of reality: it’s more important to find the perfect fit for you than size, and that fit might not be as “extra-large” as you think.
So, the next time someone suggests that “size matters,” remember that it all comes down to finding what fits and feels good and maybe not going overboard for the sake of your legs.
